Pismo mlađoj sebi

Pisala sam o ovom u novoj knjizi, pisala sam nekidan za jedan časopis, pa evo verzija i za blog.

Ono što bih iz ove perspektive (imam 41 godinu kad ovo pišem) poručila mlađoj sebi išlo bi nekako ovako:

Ocjene nisu važne. Znanje jest. Ono životno.
Manje radi, više se zabavljaj.
Ako se udaješ (a nemoj se žuritiJ), zadrži (i) svoje prezime.
Čitaj, čitaj, čitaj.
Putuj, putuj, putuj.
Nemoj zbog ega, prkosa, ponosa, istjerivanja pravde pred partnerom i dokazivanja tko je u pravu propuštati prilike za (pomirdbeni) seks.
Sve je u redu s tobom, samo nađi svoje pleme – svoje ljude.

Sebe i obitelj stavi na prvo mjesto.

 

Bez obzira na tisuće strahova i upitnika iznad glave, bit ćeš najbolja mama na svijetu.

Jedino mišljenje do kojeg ti treba biti stalo – je ono od osobe u ogledalu.

Što prije počni govoriti ne… svemu i svima što te iscrpljuje i ne pruža ti radost.

Ništa ne shvaćaj osobno.

Pokreni svoj biznis čim prije. Uvijek cijeni sebe i što prije podigni svoje cijene.
Nemoj previše davati da dokazuješ svoju vrijednost – dovoljno si dobra, zaslužuješ, vrijediš.

Nemoj bacati novce na razne stručnjake, slušaj sebe, svoju intuiciju, svoje tijelo
Spavaj, vježbaj, zdravo se hrani. Inače ćeš doći u situaciju da moraš.
Manje brini – sve će biti ok.

Ovo je tvoj život. Ti određuješ pravila.

Ne uspoređuj se
Ne takmiči se.

Slomit će ti srce, više puta. Prevarit ćete i izdati i oni kojima si beskrajno vjerovala i od njih to najmanje očekivala, ali ljubav sve pobjeđuje. I vrijedit će svaku suzu. Svaku stotinama kilometara dugu vožnju u drugu državu i sve ostale ludosti koje napraviš.

Budi zahvalna na svemu. Jer sve se događa najbolje za tebe, čak i kada nema šanse da ti to tako izgleda.

2019-02-19T12:22:19+02:00November 5th, 2017|

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I wrote about this recently in my new book, and for one new magazine, but here is a special version for my blog. What I would say to my younger self from today’s perspective ( I am 41 while writing this) would look something like this:

School grades are not important.
Knowlege is.
Life knowledge and life school is.
Work less, enjoy and have fun more.
If you marry (and don’t hurry) keep your surname (as well)
Read, read, read.
Travel, travel, travel.
Don’t miss sex because of your pride and proving something to your partner.
Everything is ok with you, just find your people, find your tribe.
Put yourself and your family first.
Regardless of thousands of fears you will be the best mum in the world.
The only person whose opinion you should care about – is yours.
Start saying NO as soon as possible, NO to everything that drains your energy and doesn’t give you JOY.
Don’t take anything personal.
Start your business as soon as you can.
Always respect yourself and increase your prices.
Don’t overgive to prove your value.
You are good enough, you deserve it all, you are worth it.
Don’t overspend your money on so-called experts, in the end always listen to your self, your intuition, and your body.
Sleep, exercise, eat healthy on time.
Otherwise you will come into a situation you will be forced to.
Worry less – everything will work out in the end.
This is your life. You make the rules.
Don’t compete. Don’t compare.
Your heart will be broken, more than once.
You will be betrayed and cheated by the closest people but love does conquer all.
And it will be worth your every tear, and every km you drove to see him while he was working in a different country and all the crazy things you did for all people you loved.
Be grateful for everything.

Because everything is here to serve you, even when it looks like it isn’t.

2019-02-20T14:20:20+02:00November 5th, 2017|

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